Author: Kimberly Garth

I'm Kimberly. I've been unmarried for most of my adult life so I'm well acquainted with the joys and disappointments of unexpected prolonged singleness. Through my journey, I've learnt a lot of lessons. Join me as I share with you this great adventure called life.

How to be Good Friends with Christian Men

God will allow you to meet various men throughout your life.  Some of them will stay for the long haul, some will drop in and drop out from time to time and others will last for a very short time.  Believe it or not, there is a purpose to every …

What to Do When You Like a Guy

You like him and you think the feeling is mutual, but you’re not one hundred percent certain. To you, he’s just the kind of man you can see as your husband. Should you share your feelings with him? Should you initiate a relationship with him? Before you go a step …

How to transition from single to married without stress!

In order to prepare for a successful career, you go through the rigors and discipline of education and training through attending primary school, secondary school, tertiary institutions, courses, and the like.  You may even hire a mentor or a coach to aid in your goals for wealth accumulation, recognition and …

6 Revealing Signs Your Relationship is Going Nowhere

Jackie and Alex have been in a committed relationship for four years.  When they entered the relationship as college sweethearts, their minds and hearts were set on marrying each other … eventually.  They’ve had ups and downs like most other romantic relationships, but Jackie is wondering if she is wasting …

How to Steadily Grow in Your Relationship With God

From age eleven to twenty, I was a Christian but there was no consistent growth. As a matter of fact, I had the opinion that serious Christians were too boring and prone to over-spiritualize everything.  As such, I committed myself to attending only ONE church event on Sundays.  I had a …

4 Really Poor Reasons for Choosing Celibacy

Angela has never had sex with a man.  She has grown up in a Christian church and at a young age, she decided to choose celibacy. She feels very good about this decision and believes that she is positioning herself for many blessings from God. Does Angela have the right …

How to Stop Having Sex with Your Boyfriend

Sex is so sweet, but having sex with your boyfriend is beginning to weigh heavily on you. But how can you stop sleeping with him? At the age of fifteen, Amy made a commitment to God and to herself that she would reserve sex for marriage.  Now, in her mid-twenties, …

6 Lies About Sex Before Marriage (and the Truth)

Simone and Harry have differing views about sex before marriage.  Harry believes that sex should be reserved for marriage.  On the other hand, Simone has been involved sexually with several former boyfriends before coming to Christ.  To her, she’s wondering if the Biblical standard is still relevant in today’s progressive …

Should You Consider Marrying an Unbeliever?

Are you interested in dating or marrying an unbeliever? Conversation between Sarah and her aunt: Aunt Betty: “Sarah, how old are you now?” Sarah: “Thirty-two, Aunty. Why do you ask?” Aunty Betty: “What are you waiting on, dear? Soon, you’ll be too old to have children.” Sarah: “I know that, …