Author: Kimberly Garth

I'm Kimberly. I've been unmarried for most of my adult life so I'm well acquainted with the joys and disappointments of unexpected prolonged singleness. Through my journey, I've learnt a lot of lessons. Join me as I share with you this great adventure called life.

When You are Falling in Love with a Married Man

Olivia’s new job was an answer to prayer. She felt that it was just the right environment for her to thrive as a female leader. As the months passed, she began working closely with her co-worker, Henry, on work-related projects. It was easy working with Henry and he had a …

5 Easy Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

Christmas could become stressful with too many unnecessary pressures like thoroughly cleaning the entire house (in 1-3 days!); buying all your loved ones the gifts that will put the widest smiles of their faces; saying “yes” to all your invitations to Christmas socials; waiting last minute to do everything; and …

How to Deal With Christians Who Hurt You

“Carla” has been a Christian for roughly 15 years. She had recently moved to a church closer to her new residence. Under the leadership of her previous church, she received a lot of leadership training and coaching which helped her and the team to successfully lead the young adults ministry …

When You Face Another Failed Relationship

“Petrina” has surrendered her desire for marriage to God … again. She has to travel to attend a two-week work-related conference and this time, she has put meeting any ‘person of interest’ out of her mind. She’s simply going to improve her skills; meet new colleagues from other parts of …

5 Poor Mindsets to Keep You Single for Long

“Jackie” is turning 42 in two days’ time. She’s taking time to reflect on her past 41 years. She thinks that she should have been married by now. In her mind, she’s single for the following reasons: In Jackie’s eyes, she has the following traits in her favour: Given all …

5 Ways Your Community Helps You Find Your Husband

“Linda” has tried online dating, but she’s had no luck. In her last relationship with “Athelbert” 😂, he tried to manipulate her into having sex. So she dropped him like a hot potato. She never thought that finding a husband was going to be so difficult! What is “Linda” to do? …

6 Reasons Why It is Better to Date in Community

You’ve been talking with ‘Frederick” for roughly one month. You find yourself excited when you see an incoming call from him. A part of you wants to tell someone about your budding romance, but is it too early? Is it anyone else’s business, but mine? Suppose I let my mother …

9 Tips to Overcome When You Feel Unattractive

For years, I felt that I was too skinny. I resorted to a plan of gaining one pound per month. That plan never worked. Whatever half a pound I gained for the whole year, whenever I got a virus, I would lose several pounds. Needless to say, I felt pretty unattractive in my …

5 Tips To Make Yourself Look Great Online

In the age in which we live, there are immense possibilities for meeting your future husband in online spaces like LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Facebook, online meetings (like Zoom, Hangouts, Microsoft Teams, etc.), Instagram and any other social media platform.  With a little extra effort, you can make yourself look great online without having …