Comments on: 5 Actions to Help Him Become The Best Future Husband

By: Petals Bloom

Petals Bloom — Fri, 08 May 2020 21:58:27 +0000

In reply to Adaisa Carruthers. Hi Adaisa, you are wise in realizing that nagging will not help at all! Your prayers would be more influential as God works in his heart and he owns his own growth.

By: Adaisa Carruthers

Adaisa Carruthers — Fri, 08 May 2020 15:19:16 +0000

This is a very timely blog… there are things I see in my fiancé that I know could be improved as with everyone… but not all of them I would want to approach him about directly. One of the hardest one for me is where you know that he can spend more time in God’s word on his own… in order to provide the leadership for me that God provides for him. I don’t want to nag him on this matter though.

By: Petals Bloom

Petals Bloom — Thu, 07 May 2020 16:57:14 +0000

In reply to Viviana. Hi Viviana, thanks for the question. A powerful witness to an unbeliever is our ability to extend forgiveness. I would recommend that you pray daily for your boyfriend about this. Pray that God softens his heart toward his father so that he can forgive him. Unforgiveness is like a chain of bondage, holding us back from experiencing total freedom in Christ. Your prayers are very much needed! “The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.” (James 5:16)

By: Viviana

Viviana — Thu, 07 May 2020 15:21:05 +0000

I don’t feel secure how to handle his relationship with his father. My boyfriend looks like he’s mature enough. His father hurt him badly in the past and his father is not a believer. What should I do then?